Potty Training Adventures with Jaxsen

Potty training Jaxsen teaches lessons about change management that apply to technology transformation.

We are potty training Jaxsen. The parallels to technology change management are uncanny and slightly ridiculous.

Both require: Clear communication of the goal. Consistent reinforcement of desired behaviors. Immediate feedback on progress. Patience through setbacks. Celebration of small wins. Understanding that regression is normal.

The biggest similarity: You cannot force readiness. Pushing before people or toddlers are ready creates resistance and prolongs the transition. Wait for readiness signals, then move decisively.

The biggest difference: Potty training eventually succeeds. Some technology changes never fully take hold despite best efforts.

These reflections happen at 2am during the third clothing change of the night. Parenthood and technology leadership both involve more cleanup than anyone admits upfront.